It isn't bleak as I first thought, and yet it is more serious than my second take on the matter was too. Sorry to be a bit cryptic and not giving more details about what happened. However, a big part of what I'm dealing with is enmeshed in mental issues I have that at the "third thought" I realize I need to handle in my own head. It wasn't the crisis I thought at first, nor the non-issue I thought at second either, and I just can't talk about it to anyone right now -- Actually, there isn't much to talk about anyway, just actions to take that I'm not sure I can take because of my messed up head.
Anyway, I was going to give an individual thank you to all who replied. I also don't like the feeling that it's a bit redundant giving everyone a general one then a personal thank you to each individual saying basically the same thing even though I know the personal ones are ... well, more personal, and in my way of thinking preferred.