When the way comes to an end, then change. Having changed you pass through. -I Ching
I've talked a lot about change over the years in this journal. What I haven't talked much about is balance and acceptance. A person can struggle against what life throws at them until the way comes to an end. There comes a time when we simply must accept the mold life wants to put us into and become a shape we never intended.
Accepting the new shape, then perhaps, life will allow us to continue to reshape ourselves more into the way we would actually like.